Lost Fathers: Kate-Left Her Dad In Pieces
LOST: A plane crashes on a remote, unknown island. The survivors must make do in this new world. Most of the characters have major father issues. There is a Hatch/hidden world that they have to uncover, open up, and dare to explore: what we call the "hard core" in hard-core people - the center of the Hoberman Sphere when it is closed tight! The island is like a prison: there is no obvious way out, no reprieve, no rescue. You are forced to deal with yourself and your connections to others. All that you have hidden away comes out into the open at some point - there is no escape from yourself! And there are strange and dangerous surprises - like a Polar Bear! Obviously, there is a plethora of things to explore in this small group of characters:
KATE: Kate's father sexually abused her and presented to her and the world that if any problems existed, it was not him, but Kate who had the problems—all too typical of sexually abusive fathers. The father drives the daughter crazy by abusing her and denying it, and then presents those reactions as proof that the daughter is making it all up. This can truly drive the daughter crazy, turn her own family against her, or she may choose to go her own way, or, she may also act out in all kinds of ways, either giving up on reality or just trying anything to blot out the pain and reality she has to continue to live with, sit with at the dinner table, worry that he’ll slip into her room again.
At some point, having had it with her father and his lies, Kate left the gas escaping on the stove and took off, the house exploding and killing her father - a relief to her! She was subsequently found guilty of murder with no extenuating circumstances, and is on the plane as a transferring prisoner, though she hides that truth for some time after the crash. (There are echoes of the Menendez Brothers Netflix Series here.) On the plane she was in the custody of a US Marshall who was killed in the crash, letting her past be a secret, at least for a while.
Regardless, she remains troubled, as the poison of her father is still inside of her, skewing her reality. Much work remains to decontaminate her core and free her from the hidden abuse. Meanwhile, she is officially a Wanted woman, although for all the wrong reasons!
These LOST toys all have major father issues which they've locked away, leaving the dilemma of how to open the hatch and deal with what is inside of it, the Hatch similar to the locked up core they have and the ticking time bomb inside from the poison that continues to fester. These toys are transitional objects that provide major fodder for therapists trying to moderate father issues clinically. The toys can get people talking, imagining, telling their stories and their heartbreaks rather than keeping it all locked up inside with shame, anger, rage, abandonment and disappointment galore.
LOST: A plane crashes on a remote, unknown island. The survivors must make do in this new world. Most of the characters have major father issues. There is a Hatch/hidden world that they have to uncover, open up, and dare to explore: what we call the "hard core" in hard-core people - the center of the Hoberman Sphere when it is closed tight! The island is like a prison: there is no obvious way out, no reprieve, no rescue. You are forced to deal with yourself and your connections to others. All that you have hidden away comes out into the open at some point - there is no escape from yourself! And there are strange and dangerous surprises - like a Polar Bear! Obviously, there is a plethora of things to explore in this small group of characters:
KATE: Kate's father sexually abused her and presented to her and the world that if any problems existed, it was not him, but Kate who had the problems—all too typical of sexually abusive fathers. The father drives the daughter crazy by abusing her and denying it, and then presents those reactions as proof that the daughter is making it all up. This can truly drive the daughter crazy, turn her own family against her, or she may choose to go her own way, or, she may also act out in all kinds of ways, either giving up on reality or just trying anything to blot out the pain and reality she has to continue to live with, sit with at the dinner table, worry that he’ll slip into her room again.
At some point, having had it with her father and his lies, Kate left the gas escaping on the stove and took off, the house exploding and killing her father - a relief to her! She was subsequently found guilty of murder with no extenuating circumstances, and is on the plane as a transferring prisoner, though she hides that truth for some time after the crash. (There are echoes of the Menendez Brothers Netflix Series here.) On the plane she was in the custody of a US Marshall who was killed in the crash, letting her past be a secret, at least for a while.
Regardless, she remains troubled, as the poison of her father is still inside of her, skewing her reality. Much work remains to decontaminate her core and free her from the hidden abuse. Meanwhile, she is officially a Wanted woman, although for all the wrong reasons!
These LOST toys all have major father issues which they've locked away, leaving the dilemma of how to open the hatch and deal with what is inside of it, the Hatch similar to the locked up core they have and the ticking time bomb inside from the poison that continues to fester. These toys are transitional objects that provide major fodder for therapists trying to moderate father issues clinically. The toys can get people talking, imagining, telling their stories and their heartbreaks rather than keeping it all locked up inside with shame, anger, rage, abandonment and disappointment galore.
LOST: A plane crashes on a remote, unknown island. The survivors must make do in this new world. Most of the characters have major father issues. There is a Hatch/hidden world that they have to uncover, open up, and dare to explore: what we call the "hard core" in hard-core people - the center of the Hoberman Sphere when it is closed tight! The island is like a prison: there is no obvious way out, no reprieve, no rescue. You are forced to deal with yourself and your connections to others. All that you have hidden away comes out into the open at some point - there is no escape from yourself! And there are strange and dangerous surprises - like a Polar Bear! Obviously, there is a plethora of things to explore in this small group of characters:
KATE: Kate's father sexually abused her and presented to her and the world that if any problems existed, it was not him, but Kate who had the problems—all too typical of sexually abusive fathers. The father drives the daughter crazy by abusing her and denying it, and then presents those reactions as proof that the daughter is making it all up. This can truly drive the daughter crazy, turn her own family against her, or she may choose to go her own way, or, she may also act out in all kinds of ways, either giving up on reality or just trying anything to blot out the pain and reality she has to continue to live with, sit with at the dinner table, worry that he’ll slip into her room again.
At some point, having had it with her father and his lies, Kate left the gas escaping on the stove and took off, the house exploding and killing her father - a relief to her! She was subsequently found guilty of murder with no extenuating circumstances, and is on the plane as a transferring prisoner, though she hides that truth for some time after the crash. (There are echoes of the Menendez Brothers Netflix Series here.) On the plane she was in the custody of a US Marshall who was killed in the crash, letting her past be a secret, at least for a while.
Regardless, she remains troubled, as the poison of her father is still inside of her, skewing her reality. Much work remains to decontaminate her core and free her from the hidden abuse. Meanwhile, she is officially a Wanted woman, although for all the wrong reasons!
These LOST toys all have major father issues which they've locked away, leaving the dilemma of how to open the hatch and deal with what is inside of it, the Hatch similar to the locked up core they have and the ticking time bomb inside from the poison that continues to fester. These toys are transitional objects that provide major fodder for therapists trying to moderate father issues clinically. The toys can get people talking, imagining, telling their stories and their heartbreaks rather than keeping it all locked up inside with shame, anger, rage, abandonment and disappointment galore.